Hey heart =/ I heard about your dad from cookies and wanted to talk to ya but I haven't seen ya online, I am glad that tree posted this thread. I know its not the same but I lost my grandfather a couple of years ago and I, including the whole family was able to be there with him as he passed in the hospice. I will def. keep you in my prayers for healing and comfort...as shells has extended I am also available to listen if you need someone to talk to as well =)